Husband s sex chat divorce
Hello, My husband has always been a bit of a night owl (been together 21 years and have 2 DC) Recently I got a strange feeling something was going on.
This morning I went on his laptop and looked at 'history' and it is full of ' No strings dating' and he has been talking to ' Becky, 22 Linc' etc. TIA xx Hello If I was you I would do exactly what you have done so far, but I would ask him to come home asap and ask him to explain. Your gut feeling will probably tell you if he has been unfaithful and then you need to decide how best to move forward - Relate is often reccommended by MNetters.
Ideally, they say, the members of a couple should be able to maintain individual friendships with the opposite sex, but in reality, a friendship like the one Krista's husband is developing is often a slippery slope.
Would he agree to some counselling if he's not too good at talking things through with you?
He has gone to doctors lately and I thtought we were sorting stuff out...
Thankyou for your replies - I don't have anyone to talk to about this...x I have looked at dating sites and have looked at the one for people looking for a fling whilst being happily married. My Dh knows I do it (has even helped me get onto the married people one, laughed at me and left the room).
Please don't think it could be caused by you having a body that he 'doesn't like' though! If he's in his 50's I doubt he's any kind of eyecandy with his clobber off either!
Wouldn't we all say we like slim, young, perky, whatever, in theory.