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I think it dawned on me sometime in my 20s how much entitlement there is in our culture regarding male-centric sexual pleasure generally, and blowjobs specifically— and how many times in my life I've personally given head because I felt like it was what I was supposed to do, not because it was what I particularly wanted to do.

And needless to say, in most of the situations where I felt that way, I wasn't really enjoying the sex that much.

This time around, we asked 16 women how they feel about giving oral sex — and why. I'm happy that he enjoys intercourse, but without head on the table, it definitely can make sex seem stale.

I've come to really chafe at the idea that this is an "expected" part of sex for men, so while I'm 100 percent psyched to do it for the right partner, I'm only going to do it if actively want to.

When my now-husband and I were dating in college, I’d give him blowjobs almost every night of the week. I still love him, obvs, but I just don’t have a taste — no pun intended — for it anymore.

Sometimes, the person on the receiving end of oral sex is being pleasured, but also feels very vulnerable; meanwhile the giver, though performing an act that usually won't provide them with any direct physical pleasure, holds almost of the power in the situation.

For some people (even those who don’t particularly care for the act itself), it’s that power imbalance inherent in oral sex that gets them off ― further proof that sex is not just physical, but also about our emotional impressions and sensations.

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