Rules on dating a younger man
Just to give you guys out there with little to no experience of dating the older woman a helping hand, follow the rules listed below to ensure smooth sailing on those uncharted waters. There’s a reason that the term “cougar” has been used rather than “panda” or “kitten,” for example.
Cougars are fierce and wilful animals, so much so that even a full grown grizzly bear would hesitate to take one on. If you plan on dating a cougar, you’d better make sure you have the energy and ability to satisfy and keep up with her.
A sexy, sassy, mature woman isn’t going to respond to your every whim and command like a silly little teen would and is likely to make you look like a fool for trying.
It might be an idea to moderate your approach or suffer the consequences.
Just because she’s got herself a toy-boy doesn’t mean she wants you to behave like a child.
Otherwise she’s just going to think of you as an unsophisticated child, and go off somewhere else looking for the complete package. We have already discussed the fact that talking about her age is a no-no, but it is something that she’s going to be aware of – more so now that a younger man is on the scene.
Consequently, any compliments that you can throw her way are going to be highly appreciated, making her feel confident and self-assured, and bringing out the sexy mature goddess side to her that so attracted you in the first place. If you’re used to getting your own way all the time in a relationship, and that’s the way you want to keep it, then you’re probably barking up the wrong tree.
Don’t forget that the age difference means she has a number of years’ experience over you in all areas imaginable, and she will be a lot more difficult to impress than the usual girls you are used to dating.
This means that you really do have to pull out your ace card on every occasion, whether regarding the kind of restaurants you are taking her to, the gifts you are buying her, the sexual adventures you are ensuing upon, or whatever else.